Ladies, please. If I had a dime for every time I had a friend complain that all men are losers or pricks or that some random guy just "fucked them and left" (boo hoo) I would be rich.
What slays me with equal annoyance are the absolutely fantastic girls friends I have who are witty - successful, hot and sensual. All with LOSER boyfriends. Why?
1. I remember an amazing Cosby Show episode that I watched when I was like 9 or 10. It had lasting memories and penetrated what was to become my mantra when dating a real person, instead of Shawn Cassidy. In it, Dad Cosby is annoyed with his daughters choice of Fiance'. To explain, he says ( and this is the part to perk your eyes up over) " Imagine a BEAUUtiful Steak! Imagine it covered with anything you love!! Mushrooms, sauteed onions, Oscar - anything! MMMM. Sound good? Now let's say I presented it to you on a garbage can lid".
Did I make the point clear? Some of my amazing girlfriends - present themselves on a garbage can lid. A hungry man will still eat it. He's just going to be a bit embarrassed that he did. And he will treat you like the garbage you promised you were.
more to come